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Attachment and Freedom: The Householder's Dilemma
Living in the World Without Being Bound — Wisdom from Bhaja Govindam, Kabir, and Vemana
February 1, 2026
•Shikshak Content Board
•9 minute read
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What is Attachment?
Attachment is not love.
Attachment is dependency.
Love says:
“I care for you.”
Attachment says:
“I cannot be whole without you.”
Attachment turns relationships into chains.
Indian philosophy calls attachment:
• moha (delusion)
• raga (clinging)
• bandhana (bondage)
The tragedy is:
Attachment creates suffering not because life is wrong…
But because we demand permanence from what is impermanent.
The Householder’s Challenge
A monk may renounce outwardly.
But a householder must learn renunciation inwardly.
Because family, work, and society constantly pull the mind outward.
Thus the true question becomes:
Can I be inwardly free while outwardly engaged?
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