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Attachment and Freedom: The Householder's Dilemma
Living in the World Without Being Bound — Wisdom from Bhaja Govindam, Kabir, and Vemana
February 1, 2026
•Shikshak Content Board
•9 minute read
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Introduction: The Spiritual Question of Ordinary Life
Most spiritual seekers are not monks.
They are householders.
They live with:
• family responsibilities
• careers
• relationships
• desires
• duties
• ambitions
• anxieties
So the deepest question is not:
“How do I escape life?”
But:
“How do I live in life… without losing myself?”
Indian wisdom traditions never demanded that everyone abandon the world.
Instead, they asked something subtler:
• Can you live with love, without attachment?
• Can you serve, without bondage?
• Can you possess, without being possessed?
• Can you remain free, even inside life’s roles?
This is the householder’s dilemma:
The world is unavoidable.
Attachment is optional.
Bhaja Govindam, Kabir, and Vemana—three voices from different centuries and contexts—offer a unified answer:
Freedom is not found in running away…
Freedom is found in inner awakening.
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